Forty-seven-year-old Sheldon Guy has experienced hardship in his life 鈥 but when the B.C. basketball coach was told he would never regain his vision, he saw no way of coming back.
鈥淭hree weeks. Three weeks was the time frame that it took for my eyesight to go from something is happening to no vision at all,鈥 he said.
In November of 2021, he noticed a change in his sight while driving through a tunnel.
鈥淚 saw nothing, no vehicles, I didn鈥檛 even see the tunnel side鈥 my peripheral was changing so that led me to call my doctor, my optometrist right away.鈥
Coach Guy painfully recalls the harrowing moment when he learned he wouldn鈥檛 see again.
鈥淚 walked out and I said, I need to go somewhere right now. Somewhere private鈥 I just let it out. I screamed, I yelled, I swore, I punched things. I got angry鈥 I didn鈥檛 understand why this was happening to me. 鈥
Sheldon鈥檚 girlfriend Chelsea also remembers the moment in vivid detail.
鈥淯p until that point, I was holding out hope that the diagnosis was going to be something that was going to be fixable, treatable鈥 when the doctor gave the diagnosis, there was just a lot of silence in the room. It was very unsettling and scary and devastating and just so many emotions running through me.鈥
Following his diagnosis, Sheldon returned to the hospital, completely despondent.
鈥淚 went face first into the bed. I don鈥檛 know how long I was there for. I鈥檓 gonna say an hour, and I was just crying. And I continued just to cry, and I remember there was a wall by my bed and I just curled up and I touched my knees to the wall, and I was just crying. I was in a fetal position and I just鈥 I knew I didn鈥檛 wanna live like this鈥 In my world and my thoughts, it was impossible, I can鈥檛 pivot from this.鈥
But endless support from Sheldon鈥檚 son Jaidyn and the girls Sheldon coaches encouraged him to keep going.
鈥淎nd I said to myself, I can't do this, I've gotta pivot, and I gotta figure this out. And so, that's when I went into reactionary mode and put a different hat on.鈥
鈥淗e just knew in his gut that, you know, he needed to go back. He knew that there was a lesson that he would be able to show those girls, you know, to persevere, be determined. You know, don鈥檛 give up. Keep going,鈥 says Chelsea.
So Sheldon persevered 鈥 he continues to coach the Langley Thunderbirds, now relying on his sense of sound and strong natural instincts instead of his sight. Most important to him is the message he鈥檚 leaving behind for his players 鈥 a group of girls he says have become like daughters to him.
鈥淚 want them to see me at my worst鈥 and I want them to see that I never gave up, and I also want them to know never to give up on themselves or others.鈥
